Sunday, October 2, 2011

The Blog Update You've Been Waiting On!

So a lot of you have been asking for this blog... so here it is.....

Here is a short re-cap:
He emailed me on Sept 1st. We emailed for 2 weeks before he asked for my number. Then we talked on the phone twice before he asked me out on a date. We went on our 1st date to a bar on Monday Sept 19th. We drank a few beers and talked and talked! The 1st date lasted 4 hours.

He's very nice. I feel like he's a little too nice for me. But I deserve nice, right? I can attract nice and not just asshole, right?? He's going to be 35 in November. He's an actor. Not musical theater. Film & commercials have been his focus this year. He is a long term temp at a financial office until he is hired for a project, then his agency finds someone to cover him at the office so he can do the project. He's been living in NYC for 11 years. He went to college at Marrietta College in Ohio, but he was born in Philly but grew up in Delaware.

Okay... 2nd date. We met at the Broadway Flea Market last Sunday Sept 25. We walked through the market, then went to lunch, then walked up 8th avenue into Central Park. We walked through the park about 40 blocks. I wanted to make him dinner so we headed to my apartment but we weren't really hungry so we watched a movie. He had always wanted to see Love Actually, so we watched that. We cuddled on the couch but that was all. We held hands and cuddled. It was nice.

After the movie, I made dinner. We ate and talked on the couch. After dinner, he made his move. We started kissing. Nothing intense. He actually joked about feeling like he was in high school, kissing on the couch. It was cute. He asked me when he could see me again. I told him I was available Saturday night. That date lasted 7 1/2 hours.

We emailed back and forth everyday this past week. Lots of "getting to know you" questions. For Saturday, I decided to finally use those Dueling Piano tickets that I purchased a few months ago. I wanted to treat him since he has been paying for everything since we've met.

Last night, I wanted to stop by my friend Jason's party for about an hour before the Dueling Pianos and he wanted to come with me, so we met at 7:45pm. We hung out at the party. He was so friendly and nice to everyone. He started conversations and he's very personable. I was in the kitchen when Jason gave me the "I approve" look.

We left at 9pm and headed to the Dueling Pianos. There were six couples on each side of the stage, and we were one of them. He put his arm around me the whole night. We had such a fun time. He was singing along with some of the songs. He actually has a nice singing voice, even though he told me he can't sing at all. He made me laugh so much.

I really like him. I actually REALLY LIKE him.

We are seeing each other again in a few days. He's also a city tour guide for when schools come into the city. He's been doing that for a few years too. He has a school coming in this weekend so we are going to try to meet up again before then.

That's all for now! :)


  1. Sounds sooo great. Woohoo!

  2. When I first met Brian I was convinced he was too nice. It took a great friend to basically tell me if I was sick of assholes then why would I not like a guy who was nice...good point, right? So I'm going to tell you the same thing. Turns out he does have a little pain in the ass in him so that's a plus. Sounds like this guy could be a keep.

  3. That last word was supposed to be keeper... :-)

  4. Good for you! Of course you deserve it - we ALL do :-) P.S. My man is also "too nice" BUT compared to me everyone is :-P